Everyone enjoys the honeymoon phase of a relationship when everything is exciting and new. Each date feels like a new adventure, and even cuddles on the couch at home while watching a film can give you a thrill. While this early stage of your romance is a wonderful experience, it can be even more enriching when your relationship moves forward. However, as you get more comfortable and committed to your partner, things can also start to feel a bit boring, or you might take each other for granted. Relationships require work to keep the flame alive, so if you are worried that things are starting to get stale with your lover, here are some things you might want to try.

Go For Date Nights Regularly

Although nights can be romantic, they can also get repetitive after a while. It’s not uncommon to find yourselves spending hours watching a TV series and barely having a conversation, which can create some emotional distance between you and your partner. This is why making time for regular date nights is key to keeping the excitement alive. Make a rule not to have your phones out, too, as this can encourage you both to talk and notice what is happening around you.

Impromptu Plans

Scheduling regular date nights is a great idea, and this can be necessary, particularly if you and your partner have busy schedules. However, as useful as it is to plan for this time together, spontaneity is still key to stopping a relationship from growing stale. It could be something as simple as initiating sex at a time when your partner doesn’t expect it or even deciding to go for a walk and a coffee one morning or afternoon. A last-minute weekend getaway can also be exciting. Whatever it is, keep each other on your toes by letting yourselves indulge in your adventurous side more often.

Have Fun As Individuals Not Just As A Couple

Finally, you should make sure that you’re doing things that interest you individually and perhaps even spend some time alone with your friends and family, rather than being joined at the hip as a couple. Spending time with each other can be lovely, but too much of that can make you sick of the sight of each other, too. Exploring your interests separately, whether a hobby or other pursuits, will also give you something fresh to talk about when you are together, and you might even find that you inspire each other in some cases, too.

If you are worried about your relationship growing stale, consider the suggestions above and see if they can help to keep things interesting.